So I’m privileged…

“The fact that I can choose to go without, no matter what my motivation, tells me that I’m privileged.”

I took a cold shower the other day. I do it a few times a month. I don’t enjoy it. Normally I luxuriate in long, hot showers for as long as I please. I did the dishes by hand the other day.  I do it occasionally. I don’t enjoy it. Normally I just pop them in the dishwasher and let it do it’s magic. I didn’t wear a coat to work today, even though my phone told me it is 27 degrees outside. I do this sometimes. I don’t enjoy it. Normally I choose from my many warm, stylish winter coats and never feel the wind. I’ve been thinking I should sleep on the floor occasionally. I wouldn’t like it. Normally I crawl into my cozy, soft bed and sleep comfortably. Why would I do these things? Because I’m privileged and I know it.

When I’m in Africa, I take swift cold showers because hot water for any length of time is a luxury. I often don’t have electricity, and rarely wifi. I wash dishes and clothes by hand. I seem to get along just fine without these things when I have to. Once a month I help my friend Acha feed people in the homeless camps here in Kansas City. Summers here are HOT and winters here are COLD. They don’t have a comfy, warm bed to fall into at night. They don’t always have the appropriate coat to put on for the temperature. They don’t have electricity at night to watch TV and read, or wifi to help them find resources.

I’m very privileged and I know it. I have all the comforts a girl could want. I have all the choices. The fact that I can choose to go without, no matter what my motivation, tells me that I’m privileged. But, I do choose to go without sometimes. I need to remind myself what life is like without convenience and comfort. I need to remember that people all over the world do not have the comfort and the choices that I have, and be grateful for my life.

This Thanksgiving season, make intentional decisions to be grateful. This Christmas holiday season, make intentional decisions to be kind, and share what you have with others that don’t. Occasionally, choose to go without, to remind you of your privilege and to keep your heart tender. “For unto whom much is given, of him much will be required.” Jesus (Luke 12:48).

Be kind, be grateful, be courageous,

Jules